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Kat and Alex Explore More Intimacy

16 September 2026

29m 24s

Episode 6. Why Don’t I Feel Anything During Sex? Fantasies & Losing Erections

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Kat and Alex answer three real questions from the Explore More Intimacy community:

  • I don’t really feel anything during sex with my partner — is there something wrong with me?
  • I fantasise about other people who aren’t my husband — does that mean something is wrong with my relationship?
  • The guy I’m seeing loses his erection during sex — what does that mean?

A relaxed, honest conversation about sensation during sex, fantasy in long-term relationships, erection changes, and the worries we can attach to all three.

No judgement. No awkwardness. Just real questions and real conversation.

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Kat – Explore More Intimacy

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Alex Gear – Intimacy Anxiety Coach

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