Podcast by Kat and Alex Explore More Intimacy
23 August 2026
Kat and Alex revisit one of the most-listened-to questions from Explore More Intimacy:
Does penis size really matter?
A relaxed, honest conversation about confidence, pressure, pleasure and what actually matters when it comes to intimacy.
No judgement. No awkwardness. Just one real question, answered properly.
Got a question for a future Quick Question?
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Kat – Explore More Intimacy
Instagram: @exploremoreintimacypodcast
Instagram: @exploremoreintimacy
Website: https://www.exploremoreintimacy.com
Patreon: Explore More Intimacy Members
Alex Gear – Intimacy Anxiety Coach
Instagram: @intimacyanxietyalex
Website: https://www.alex-gear.com
For educational and conversational purposes only. This podcast is not a substitute for individual medical, psychological or professional advice.
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07:13
20 August 2026
Kat and Alex answer three more real questions from the Explore More Intimacy community:
A relaxed, honest conversation about porn in relationships, the pressure of always being the one to initiate intimacy, sexual anxiety and what can help create more confidence and connection.
No judgement. No awkwardness. Just real questions and real conversation.
Got a question for a future episode?
Send us a DM on Instagram — your question can stay anonymous.
Kat – Explore More Intimacy
Instagram: @exploremoreintimacy
Website: https://www.exploremoreintimacy.com
Patreon: Explore More Intimacy Members
Alex Gear – Intimacy Anxiety Coach
Instagram: @intimacyanxietyalex
Website: https://www.alex-gear.com
For educational and conversational purposes only. This podcast is not a substitute for individual medical, psychological or professional advice.
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26:00
14 August 2026
A bonus follow-on conversation with Kat and Alex, answering three more real questions around intimacy, desire and connection.
In this episode, they explore:
• Can you naturally increase testosterone?
• What happens when one partner is more adventurous than the other?
• How do you reignite intimacy when things have gone a little flat?
A relaxed, honest conversation about desire, confidence, mismatched wants and finding your way back to each other.
No judgement. No awkwardness. Just real questions and real conversation.
Kat — Explore More Intimacy
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/exploremoreintimacy_
Website: https://www.exploremoreintimacy.com
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/exploremoreintimacy
Alex Gear — Intimacy Anxiety Coach
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/intimacyanxietyalex
Website: https://www.alex-gear.com
For educational and conversational purposes only. This podcast is not a substitute for individual medical, psychological or professional advice.
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13:38
14 August 2026
A bonus conversation with Alex Gear on performance anxiety, confidence and what really happens when pressure gets in the way of pleasure.
Before Kat and Alex started recording Explore More Intimacy together, Alex joined Kat as a guest for an honest conversation about performance anxiety.
They explore:
• What performance anxiety actually is
• Why it can affect erections and ejaculation
• How pressure and overthinking can disconnect you from your body
• Why lasting longer isn’t always the answer
• What can help you feel more relaxed, present and confident during intimacy
A relaxed, honest conversation about performance, pressure, confidence and why sometimes trying so hard to “get it right” is exactly what gets in the way.
No judgement. No awkwardness. Just real conversation.
Kat — Explore More Intimacy
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/exploremoreintimacy_
Website: https://www.exploremoreintimacy.com
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/exploremoreintimacy
Alex Gear — Intimacy Anxiety Coach
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/intimacyanxietyalex
Website: https://www.alex-gear.com
For educational and conversational purposes only. This podcast is not a substitute for individual medical, psychological or professional advice.
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37:19
13 August 2026
Kat and Alex answer three real questions from the Explore More Intimacy community:
A relaxed, honest conversation about confidence, pleasure, communication and what really matters when it comes to intimacy.
No judgement. No awkwardness. Just real questions and real conversation.
Got a question for a future episode?
Send us a DM on Instagram — your question can stay anonymous.
Kat – Explore More Intimacy
Instagram: @exploremoreintimacy
Website: https://www.exploremoreintimacy.com
Patreon: Explore More Intimacy Members
Alex Gear – Intimacy Anxiety Coach
Instagram: @intimacyanxietyalex
Website: https://www.alex-gear.com
For educational and conversational purposes only. This podcast is not a substitute for individual medical, psychological or professional advice.
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24:16