Explore More Intimacy

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Kat and Alex Explore More Intimacy

25 September 2026

8m 46s

Quick Question: Why can’t I orgasm with my partner?

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Kat and Alex look at one of the questions from Explore More Intimacy:

Why can’t I orgasm with my partner?

In this Quick Question, we talk about why pleasure can feel different with a partner, even when you know what works for you on your own. We explore how pressure, feeling watched and trying to reach a goal can make it harder to stay with what feels good.

We also talk about sharing what you enjoy with your partner and finding a pace that gives you both room to explore.

No judgement. No awkwardness. Just one real question, answered properly.

Send us a DM on Instagram — your question can stay anonymous.

Kat – Explore More Intimacy

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Alex Gear – Intimacy Anxiety Coach

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For educational and conversational purposes only. This podcast is not a substitute for individual medical, psychological or professional advice.