Podcast by Kat and Alex Explore More Intimacy
01 October 2026
Kat and Alex answer three real questions from the Explore More Intimacy community:
A relaxed, honest conversation about delayed ejaculation, performance pressure, sensation and arousal, spanking, trust, consent, long-distance intimacy, anticipation, communication and keeping connection alive between visits.
No judgement. No awkwardness. Just real questions and real conversation.
Got a question for a future episode?
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Kat – Explore More Intimacy
Instagram: @exploremoreintimacy
Website: Explore More Intimacy
Patreon: Explore More Intimacy Members
Alex Gear – Intimacy Anxiety Coach
Instagram: @intimacyanxietyalex
Website: Alex Gear
For educational and conversational purposes only. This podcast is not a substitute for individual medical, psychological or professional advice.
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29 September 2026
Kat and Alex look at one of the questions from Explore More Intimacy:
I know she likes oral. How can I get better?
In this Quick Question, we talk about taking the pressure off the finish, slowing things down, building arousal and paying attention to what she responds to.
No judgement. No awkwardness. Just one real question, answered properly.
Send us a DM on Instagram — your question can stay anonymous.
Kat – Explore More Intimacy
Instagram: @exploremoreintimacy.podcast
Instagram: @exploremoreintimacy
Website: Explore More Intimacy
Explore More Intimacy app: Join the waitlist
Patreon: Explore More Intimacy Members
Alex Gear – Intimacy Anxiety Coach
Instagram: @intimacyanxietyalex
Website: alex-gear.com
For educational and conversational purposes only. This podcast is not a substitute for individual medical, psychological or professional advice.
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11:42
27 September 2026
Kat and Alex answer a quick question from the Explore More Intimacy community:
“What’s the difference between a kink and a fetish?”
A short, relaxed conversation about what each term means, where they overlap, and why having a particular turn-on doesn’t automatically mean anything is wrong or unusual.
No judgement. No awkwardness. Just real questions and real conversation.
Got a question for a future episode?
Send us a DM on Instagram — your question can stay anonymous.
Explore More Intimacy App
Kat – Explore More Intimacy
Instagram: @exploremoreintimacy
Website: Explore More Intimacy
Patreon: Explore More Intimacy Members
Alex Gear – Intimacy Anxiety Coach
Instagram: @intimacyanxietyalex
Website: Alex Gear
For educational and conversational purposes only. This podcast is not a substitute for individual medical, psychological or professional advice.
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05:22
25 September 2026
Kat and Alex look at one of the questions from Explore More Intimacy:
Why can’t I orgasm with my partner?
In this Quick Question, we talk about why pleasure can feel different with a partner, even when you know what works for you on your own. We explore how pressure, feeling watched and trying to reach a goal can make it harder to stay with what feels good.
We also talk about sharing what you enjoy with your partner and finding a pace that gives you both room to explore.
No judgement. No awkwardness. Just one real question, answered properly.
Send us a DM on Instagram — your question can stay anonymous.
Kat – Explore More Intimacy
Instagram: @exploremoreintimacy.podcast
Instagram: @exploremoreintimacy
Website: Explore More Intimacy
Explore More Intimacy app: Join the waitlist
Patreon: Explore More Intimacy Members
Alex Gear – Intimacy Anxiety Coach
Instagram: @intimacyanxietyalex
Website: alex-gear.com
For educational and conversational purposes only. This podcast is not a substitute for individual medical, psychological or professional advice.
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24 September 2026
Kat and Alex answer three real questions from the Explore More Intimacy community:
A relaxed, honest conversation about oral pleasure, taking pressure off orgasm, painful sex, vaginismus, body tension, comfort, mindful masturbation and changing long-standing pleasure habits.
In Question 2, Kat also mentions Nuri by Tabu, a warming internal wand / dilator-style support tool discussed as an option for gentle internal exploration and comfort.
No judgement. No awkwardness. Just real questions and real conversation.
Got a question for a future episode?
Send us a DM on Instagram — your question can stay anonymous.
Kat – Explore More Intimacy
Instagram: @exploremoreintimacy
Website: Explore More Intimacy
Patreon: Explore More Intimacy Members
Alex Gear – Intimacy Anxiety Coach
Instagram: @intimacyanxietyalex
Website: Alex Gear
For educational and conversational purposes only. This podcast is not a substitute for individual medical, psychological or professional advice.
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34:33
22 September 2026
Kat and Alex look at one of the questions from Explore More Intimacy:
Lasting longer — what techniques actually work?
In this Quick Question, we talk about noticing when you’re getting close, changing pace, taking a pause and using your breath to stay present.
We also look at why trying to “last longer” can create pressure, and how to make room for pleasure and connection without watching the clock.
A relaxed, honest conversation about timing, pressure and finding what works for you.
No judgement. No awkwardness. Just one real question, answered properly.
Send us a DM on Instagram — your question can stay anonymous.
Kat – Explore More Intimacy
Instagram: @exploremoreintimacy.podcast
Instagram: @exploremoreintimacy
Website: https://www.exploremoreintimacy.com
Explore Intimacy app: Join the waitlist
Patreon: Explore More Intimacy Members
Alex Gear – Intimacy Anxiety Coach
Instagram: @intimacyanxietyalex
Website: https://www.alex-gear.com
For educational and conversational purposes only. This podcast is not a substitute for individual medical, psychological or professional advice.
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